Run a mile or plenty away


A poem by Kevin Bonfield


Maybe a confusion here for
A tiny frail elderly man who
Needs pockets and to lock it
And to keep his life safe.

A Brazilian office worker rushing to work.
A salad, maybe sweet chilli sauce
And fruit and a rare treat
Wrong colour wrong timing.

A mid-life crisis in full flow
More a waistcoat but, hey
Rucksack sounds more rugged
Run a mile or plenty away

A hiker, a traveller, a primary school
Kid who might fit in theirs
Young Mum, baby milk and wipes
Or mine with a scribble and a pen

The Memory Cafe

Knees up. Mother who?

Another poem, from my growing collection inspired by living with someone who is living with dementia.



by Kevin Bonfield



Knees up. Mother who?


The songs, and posters, the


Jokes and the jokers


For just one minute they


Bring back you




My old man. He said


Ahhh the mini van. I


Remember the plate


The eyes for that minute


Aren’t so dead




So when it’s my turn


Will Oasis and Blur


Or The Who and Kinks


Be my memory prompts


That I should learn




But Every nice girl


Sure loves you, sailor


As you stir from the back


From black empty holes to


An hour in this world




And yes, you still do


Like to be beside the


Seaside, beside yourself


Perhaps you don’t


But the sea air IS you


Nothing As Recent As Milk

Another of my little scribblings inspired by life with a dementia sufferer….

Like a mini van

Back when

The ice cream vans were rationed

When your siblings plans

Were hampered

When the Yorkshire puds

Were devoured

And your mind was free to imagine.

And roam and dream and challenge.

Then this began

Leaving number plates

And servicemen rates

And all your homes to date

And your family traits

Your aircraft mates

But nothing as recent

As milk

Scraping The Tin

Another in a series of poems inspired by living with someone who is living with dementia…….


Maybe I’ve always been fastidious

I was born before the war

When there was no food to leave

And now there’s all those kids who

Don’t need greenery up there

Are they’re noisy, wow-wee, they

Give it some…….

So I’ll keep on scraping the tin

And letting the prying eyes in

Because all that, you know, all that…

(rubbish, Frank, all that rubbish)

It just rockets, and they won’t take boxes

So I’ll keep on scraping the tin

And organising the bin

Until I know there’s nothing


The Plug

A little poem inspired by living with someone living with dementia


I met another lady

In the…….

You know, the…….


Oh this head head HEAD

(The park, Dad)

The Park

What was it I said?

Yes, she had this too

She could never remember

If the month is, is……



Yes and how do I make this


(Shredder Dad)

Yes, how do I make it work?


Another dementia inspired poem

Dandelion head

Put to bed in a big bin

Unless I got

To the gate and forgot.

Yogurt pot

Or gravy or tooth fairy

Or just what is the year.

Yet I know WHY 

The others are so close 

To tears.

I tell them

While I’m still that aware

That it just won’t be fair 

My demise.

You know the one

The usual the yellow

The yellow head in my head

I want them to prompt

Yet I don’t 

That’s it, I was nearly there

Dandelion head.

Closer To Home (free poetry)

So is it just smaller

Because it’s at Home

Is it just scarier

Because it’s closer to Home

The big things out there

Are they just bigger or

is it ok to say the

confusion at Home

is big too

Blessed to not know

the grief or loss or pain

But challenged by

how does the oven

work and why does

it not have a book

Home is where the

heart lies and yours

lies at Home




Part of a series of Poems –  Inspired by living with, and supporting, a dementia sufferer